What is love...? Some people may think that love is all about happiness.... Well, that is not completely wrong.... But that is the after effect of love.... Without any feelings, happiness will not exist.... For the same thing.... Without any contribution, No feelings will be created.... What is the effect before that then...? To me.... Love is not about sacrificial of ones life.... It is more towards the contribtions that you had made for your other half.... Why am I saying this... This is because if you had chosen to sacrifice your life.... Why sacrifice your life...? The girl you love will not feel sorry or pity you.... Instead, she will think that you are trying to make her feel guilty about your death.... But instead of making her crying and making her love you unwillingly.... You may make her hate or dislike you even more.... This is because you did not even treasure your ownself.... So how much do you think you can treasure her...? In fact if you are dead.... How are you going to protect her...? You will end up regretting dying for your whole entire life, instead of protecting and treasure her.... On the other hand, why is it contribution then...? This is because if you love her so much.... You will not try to do things that will hurt her in the heart.... You will care about her, worrying about her.... You are willing to do anything for her without any reason.... You will hope to contribute your love against all odds.... But contribution alone is not enough.... This is where trustworthiness takes place.... Both contribution and trustworthiness must take place at the same time..... Trust between each other is very very important.... Without any trust, you will start looking at the girl's mobile.... The girl will feel no security being with you.... This is because you are treating her like a liar more than your girlfriend.... But there will be still indefinite answer for love.... Who knows.... :).... Signing off....
JeReMiAh posted @ 2:30 PM
